Fix error checking in aiter_hip_common.h

[draganmladjenovic]

Motivation

HIP_CALL is using exit(0) thus hiding issues in the CI

Technical Details

Use std::abort

Test Plan

Check CI

Test Result

TBD

Submission Checklist

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• ✅ Pre-checks (submodule verification, code formatting)
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• ✅ Triton tests (only when aiter/ops/triton/** or related paths are changed)

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Label	Tests
ci:sglang	SGLang integration tests
ci:atom	ATOM benchmark (DeepSeek-R1 + GPT-OSS)
ci:multi-gpu	Multi-GPU op tests (8 GPU)
ci:vllm	vLLM benchmark
ci:all	All of the above

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