Shade more packages

[turboFei]

Which issue does this PR close?

Closes #.

Rationale for this change

This PR shade more packages.

Before this PR:

jar -tf target/blaze-engine-spark-3.5-release-5.0.0-SNAPSHOT.jar|grep -v blaze | grep .class |wc -l
      3895

After this PR:

jar -tf target/blaze-engine-spark-3.5-release-5.0.0-SNAPSHOT.jar|grep -v blaze | grep .class |wc -l
      96

What changes are included in this PR?

Are there any user-facing changes?

[turboFei]

BTW, gluten jar also including arrow.c-data(we include gluten jar into our spark binary), and it conflicts with blaze jar.

It does not matter.