ci: harden Dependabot auto-merge with PR diff allowlist #59

Summary

dependabot-automerge.yml trusts fetch-metadata's dependency-group output without inspecting the PR diff. A compromised Dependabot run could submit a patch-level bump whose diff also touches syncmap.go or a workflow.

Scope

Extend the auto-merge step to run gh pr diff and refuse to enable auto-merge if any path outside {go.mod, go.sum, .github/workflows/**} (for actions ecosystem) or {go.mod, go.sum} (for gomod) is modified.

Acceptance criteria

1. Test PR with a crafted diff touching syncmap.go is NOT auto-merged.
2. Legitimate go.mod/go.sum-only bumps are still auto-merged.

Source: devops.