Fix stucking donor queries (merge from main #10470)

[alexvru]

Changelog entry

Fix stucking donor queries

Changelog category

• Bugfix

Additional information

Eternally stuck (due to race between sending message to donor disk and deleting one) TEvVGet requests have been fixed.

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Test history | Test log

TESTS	PASSED	ERRORS	FAILED	SKIPPED	MUTED?
10285	10195	0	12	30	48

🟢 2024-10-17 14:46:56 UTC ydbd size 5.6 GiB changed* by -160 Bytes, which is <= 0 Bytes vs stable-24-3: OK

ydbd size dash	stable-24-3: ffeb7c7	merge: 93867b0	diff	diff %
ydbd size	5 960 170 304 Bytes	5 960 170 144 Bytes	-160 Bytes	-0.000%
ydbd stripped size	1 495 816 928 Bytes	1 495 816 800 Bytes	-128 Bytes	-0.000%

^{*please be aware that the difference is based on comparing your commit and the last completed build from the post-commit, check comparation}

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⚪ 2024-10-17 12:18:20 UTC Pre-commit check for 93867b0 has started.
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Test history | Test log

TESTS	PASSED	ERRORS	FAILED	SKIPPED	MUTED?
14583	13234	0	6	1299	44

🟢 2024-10-17 14:28:14 UTC ydbd size 8.2 GiB changed* by -64 Bytes, which is <= 0 Bytes vs stable-24-3: OK

ydbd size dash	stable-24-3: ffeb7c7	merge: 93867b0	diff	diff %
ydbd size	8 814 644 568 Bytes	8 814 644 504 Bytes	-64 Bytes	-0.000%
ydbd stripped size	481 910 664 Bytes	481 910 664 Bytes	0 Bytes	0.000%

^{*please be aware that the difference is based on comparing your commit and the last completed build from the post-commit, check comparation}