Replace SettingPresets with BuildSettingsProvider from XcodeProj

[yonaskolb]

Since the build setting preset yml files were created, XcodeProj has added it's own logic and presets for these settings, presumably for Tuist
https://github.com/tuist/XcodeProj/blob/main/Sources/XcodeProj/Utils/BuildSettingsProvider.swift

We can look at using them too, and seeing where the differences are. This would let us remove the yml files