fix: Incorrect error is shown when xcrun simctl is not configured

[rosen-vladimirov]

In case xcrun simctl throws some error, CLI does not handle it very well.
Improve the logic in ios-sim-portable and update its version in order to resolve the issue.

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What is the current behavior?

In case simctl is not configured correctly, CLI fails with process.send is not a function.

What is the new behavior?

CLI prints the message from simctl, which shows the user what is misconfigured